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MENCARE+ CONSORTIUM DELIVERS ORAL
STATEMENT AT CSW 58
On 20 March 2014 at the 58th Commission on the Status of
Women in New York, Rutgers WPF and the MenCare+ Consortium delivered an oral
statement asking for increased attention to involve men in improving the
position of women and girls. The statement was presented by Joni
van de Sand from WO=MEN Dutch Gender Platform.
"The new
global Post-2015 Development Agenda aims to improve the position of women and
girls. Engaging men as allies in this endeavour has been proven to work
around the world. Men have the potential to contribute towards improving gender
equality, and many men already do."
Around the world
men are doing their
share of caregiving at home, are speaking out against
gender-based violence and are supporting
girls’ and women’s empowerment.
To break through
and change harmful and unhealthy perceptions of what it means to be a man, men
and women together are redefining concepts of manhood, relationships, sexuality
and caregiving.
In light of the Post-2015
agenda, the MenCare+ consortium wishes to emphasize the need to:
1. work with men as supportive partners in sexual and
reproductive health and rights by engaging men in family planning and prenatal,
maternal and child health to create better outcomes for women, children and men
themselves;
2. prevent gender-based violence by engaging men as partners and
allies, and by creating safe
spaces for men and women to address harmful norms and work
through past experiences of violence; and
3. encourage men to be involved as caring fathers, by advocating
for a legal framework around parental leave and family-friendly policies.
Engaging boys and
men is crucial and strategic to improve sexual and reproductive health and
rights for all; to reduce gender-based violence; and to promote equal
relationships.
Becoming a father
is a ‘life-event’ that offers a chance to reach young men with a new
perspective on what it means to be a parent. In South Africa, we have young
father’s group sessions, where we talk about the responsibilities, the
insecurities and the excitement of becoming a father. I’d like to quote the
words of a facilitator from one of these sessions: “Fathers grow into their
role one day at a time …”
When men become
more gender equitable, caring and engaged partners and fathers, there is less
gender-based violence; women enjoy better sexual and reproductive health;
children develop better; and men themselves become happier and healthier.
I believe all of us
here together, we are united in our mission to achieve gender equality.
Therefore, we must all ensure both women and men are included in our work!