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GERMANY - SUPPORT & COUNSELLING FOR MUSLIM WOMEN 

Rabeya Mueller, one of ZIF (Cologne, Germany, Islamic Women's Centre for Research & Encouragement)founders. The Centre combines religious
theory with a help hotline and counselling center.(Credit: Naomi Kresge)

By Naomi Kresge

Cologne (WeNews\WFS) – Most of Louise Becker's 12-hour workdays are hidden behind a bright orange door in suburban Cologne, Germany. There she counsels Muslim women through family and marriage problems. The meetings are secret to prevent harassment from the women's husbands, fathers and brothers.

Becker, 70, a German who converted to Islam 45 years ago, has helped women with crises of sexuality, faith and abusive relationships. In March 2008 she had offered to officiate at a client's divorce, a shocking step for a woman. The client's husband balked at Becker's involvement, but for his wife it was a breakthrough to realise she could end her marriage.

"So they went to a mosque around the corner, and the woman cited the Qur’an and said she didn't want the marriage," Becker recalls. "The imam said, 'Yes, the female theologian was right, and I'll give you a divorce.'"

Becker's centre, ZIF - Zentrum fur Islamische Frauenforschung, or the Islamic Women's Centre for Research and Encouragement - combines religious theory with a help hotline and counselling. It is the only Muslim theology centre run by women in Germany.

Organisers say the Cologne centre is part of a trend in Germany of Muslim women, often immigrants, forming aid organisations to support each other rather than relying on the country's secular network. "I think the women feel a bit more understood," said Heba Elias, a social worker for the Meeting and Education Centre of Muslim Women, which also provides family and women's counselling in Cologne. "Many Muslim women feel when they go to other types of counselling that they have to explain their own identity before they can start explaining their problems."

A 2007 European Union report listed the two Cologne centres among the four most important Muslim women's organisations in Germany. The others were the Network for Islamic Women and the Berlin-based Working Group for Muslim Women Within Society.

Among immigrant women's groups, ZIF stands out for its focus on religion, traditionally dominated by men with paid teaching and study positions in Germany's mosques, said Rabeya Mueller, one of the group's founders. The group began as a women's theology study circle in 1994, then slowly began offering counselling before becoming a nonprofit in 1998. "We sat down together and said, 'We don't understand some of these verses. How can it be, if God is just, that some things are so unjust for women?'" Mueller recalled.

On the ZIF staff are a couple of full time women workers as well as some volunteers. Because of security concerns, the group does not publish its address. Instead it operates an anonymous telephone help hotline. Five volunteers - two educators, a doctor, a sociologist and a theologian - offer face-to-face counselling by appointment.

Muslim women know they can ask questions they can't ask elsewhere, such as doubts they have about their faith or sexual orientation, Mueller said. Domestic violence is another common problem. "We try to explain what possibilities the Qur’an offers," Mueller added, but counsellors let clients come to their own conclusions about what to do.

Often clients decide to return to abusive relationships, she said.

Nonetheless, according to ZIF counsellors, Muslim women who are victims of abuse are more likely to respond to counseling grounded in their faith.

The centre drew attention in 2007 when a high-profile German divorce case drew its theological work into the limelight. A German judge in Frankfurt refused to allow a Moroccan Muslim to end her abusive marriage without the one-year waiting period usually required by German law. Citing the Qur’an, the judge said she would reject the woman's application for quicker divorce because under Islamic law, men are allowed to strike their wives.

ZIF's theologians had published a book in 2005 arguing that verses of the Qur’an sometimes used to justify striking women had been incorrectly translated. And, before the Frankfurt case, some male-led Muslim groups in Germany tried to deny that spousal abuse was a problem, Mueller said.

Suddenly, amid widespread outrage - the judge was later removed from the case - ZIF saw male Muslim thinkers in Germany agreeing with them about mistranslation. The Central Council of Muslims in Germany posted ZIF's book on its home page. "Women from ZIF do the difficult theological work, and then the other Muslim organisations look to see how people react," Mueller said.

Though the women who head the group's religious studies workshops hold theology degrees, anyone is welcome to join. ZIF counsellors' advice is often grounded in the theology circle's work, said Becker.

Most of ZIF's clients are children of immigrants, Becker added. They're more likely to seek out counselling than their mothers and more likely than their daughters to seek it from a culturally sensitive source. "To put yourself forward, demand your rights, is still a little strange for some Muslim women here," Becker said. "They're afraid of looking radical or inadequate."

(Naomi Kresge is a reporter and Fulbright Journalism Fellow based in Berlin. For original story, log on to: http://www.womensenews.org/story/080330/german-muslim-center-wraps-counseling-in-faith)