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CARE PACKAGE FOR &
BY A BREAST CANCER PATIENT
This Care Package for a Breast Cancer Patient list was written by a 32-year-old woman named Nicole who last summer opted for a prophylactic mastectomy after learning she had the BRCA2 genetic mutation, which put her at high risk for breast cancer.
In her blog, Losing My Boobs, Nicole, who asked that her last name not be used, offered a list of recommendations for women heading to the hospital for breast surgery. It contains a number of great suggestions for anyone wanting to prepare a care package for a woman they know.
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Comfy button-front pajamas: The softer the fabric, the better, said Nicole. She couldn’t raise her arms after surgery, so she lived in these pajamas for two weeks.
Soft, fuzzy socks: “I was freezing in the hospital all the time,” she said.
Dry shampoo: A woman can’t shower for days after surgery, but a dry shampoo can lift her spirits. Nicole said she will always be grateful to the friend who gave her a dry shampoo and braided her hair while she was recovering in her hospital bed.
Baby wipes: An important item for the bedside table of any woman stuck in a hospital bed.
Lip balm and moisturizer: During her stay in the hospital, Nicole said, she constantly felt parched and kept her lip balm and moisturizer close at all times.
Mineral water spray: Water sprays, like the brumisateur sold by Evian, can be particularly refreshing.
Mints: A box of Altoids is an essential for a hospital patient who can’t get out of bed to brush her teeth in time for visitors, says Nicole.
A battery-powered toothbrush: This gift from a doctor friend was surprisingly useful, said Nicole. Even a movement as small as brushing your teeth is too painful after surgery. “You can’t move your arms, so you need something that can do the work for you,” she said.
A soft blanket: Work friends gave Nicole a super-soft blanket and pillow from Brookstone, and she treasured it during her hospital stay. “Anything soft is good,” she said. “That soft material was so comforting . No position you get in after that kind of surgery is comfortable. You can’t move, you can’t sleep, so anything that can be the least bit comforting is wonderful.”
Entertainment: An iPod or MP3 player loaded with music and a few magazines or books that can be flipped through with minimal effort are a good idea. Nicole said she brought a laptop but never used it “because I felt so terrible, not to mention mentally foggy from all the drugs.”
Waxing: Before surgery, a wax treatment, particularly under the arms, is a good idea, said Nicole. With all the tubes and pain, the patient won’t be able to shave for a while, so a pre-surgery gift certificate would be a welcome treat.
To learn more about Nicole’s experiences, you can read her blog, or follow her on Twitter.