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Widows for Peace through Democracy

http://www.widowsforpeace.org/; director.wpd@gmail.com

 

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1 January, 2011

 

Dear Under-Secretary General and Executive Director of UN Women,

Ms. Michelle Bachelet,

 

We congratulate you on your appointment as Under-Secretary General for Gender Equality and the Empowerment of Women and Executive Director of UN Women, and wish you every success in this all-important new position. In particular, we warmly welcome your promise that: “UN-Women will significantly boost UN efforts to expand opportunities for women and girls and tackle discrimination around the globe.”

 

Widows for Peace is the founder of the international advocacy coalition of widows' organizations in conflict-affected countries, with primary focus on South Asia and Sub-Saharan Africa. We advocate for the human rights of widows, with emphasis on peace and security, inheritance and land rights, and eradication of the intergenerational transmission of poverty, child marriage, harmful and degrading traditional mourning practices, social exclusion, and HIV/AIDS. WPD also is a founding member of GAPS-UK (Gender Action for Peace and Security), SANWED (South Asian Network for Widows Empowered through Development), and Global Action on Widowhood.

 

With your appointment, we have new hopes that your mandate will encompass this most neglected of human rights and gender issues: Widowhood.  The discrimination and abuse widows experience is extreme, widespread, but mostly ignored. The stigma against widows is so great that widows often do not mobilize as “widows” but as “single women” or “strong women alone” (South Asia), and as “women living with AIDS” or “grandmothers” (Africa), thereby remaining invisible as widows. Moreover, the numbers of widows increase daily due to armed conflict, the AIDS pandemic, and violence, with millions of (yet uncounted) widows and wives of the disappeared in many conflict-afflicted countries across the world desperate for their voices to be heard, their needs addressed and their roles as sole supporters of children acknowledged, with proper back-ups developed. We pray that, with your appointment, the inequality, marginalisation, and stigma suffered by widows and their dependents will at last be addressed by new UN-Women’s programmes that tackle gender inequality in new ways.

 

We applaud UN-Women for the first mention of Widowhood on a UN system website. However, we urge you not to falsely associate widows almost exclusively with the elderly.  While we welcome enthusiastically The CEDAW‘s General Recommendation regarding the status of Older Women in the context of the Women’s Convention (we signed the letter from HelpAge International to you), we would plead with you and your colleagues to also have regard for the fact that widows are of all ages, from the very young child widows, the pre-teens and young mothers, through the AIDS widows and widows of conflicts to the old and old-old grandmothers – all of whom struggle to survive and support their families whilst mostly deprived of their fundamental rights. 

 

Discrimination against widows in inheritance, land ownership, credit, and freedom to marry, and protection from forced marriage, “chasing-off,” property-grabbing, rape, forced prostitution, and trafficking vulnerability continue in many countries despite domestic laws which, on paper, ratify The CEDAW and agree the Beijing Platform for Action, UN SCR 1325 and other human rights conventions, declarations and resolutions.         

                                                                                                                                                                                                                            

There seems to be little awareness among Governments, or, to date, within UN entities, of the depth and breadth of widow discrimination and abuse, or of how key widows and their children are in development, peace building, and reduction of the poverty that is so often the cause of conflicts. In 2001, I authored the only UN report on the global status of Widowhood for DAW's Women 2000 Series, identifying the major issues and the urgent need for data on widows, yet little follow-up on issues or data has occurred despite dramatic increases in widows’ numbers.

 

Worst of all, the lack of data exacerbates the invisibility and neglect of the problem, although we can give UN-Women best practice case studies of data collected and widows mobilising to be heard (for instance, our member Women for Human Rights-Single Women's Group, Nepal).

 

Ms. Rachel Mayanja of OSAGI referred to the need to address the status of widows in several speeches, both at the CSW and at the recent Brussels meeting on implementation of UN SCR 1325 + 10. I am sure she will support this letter to you and can fill you in on WPD‘s work of the last few years. Also we have had meetings with the DSG Her Excellency Ms. Asha-Rose Mirigo during several CSW sessions and know she too would support this appeal.

 

While the complex issues of Widowhood cut across all 12 action areas of the Beijing Platform for Action, all eight Millennium Development Goals, and many of The CEDAW articles, and are relevant to the implementation of UN SCR 1325 and its successive Resolutions on gender issues in conflict scenarios, unfortunately, there has been little action at the UN to date.  In 2007, we provided Ms. Mayanja, at her request, with a detailed methodology and budget to undertake a study of Widowhood in 11 countries, which remains unfunded. She and the DSG also receive Recommendations from each successive CSW Side Event meeting on Widowhood.

 

We would welcome your comments, and, hopefully, your support for our requests: that the UN Secretary-General appoint a Special Rapporteur on the status of widows around the globe; that the S-G commission a report on Widowhood in conflict (along the lines of the Graca Machel report on children in conflict); and that UN-Women sponsor regional conferences on Widowhood in South Asia and Sub-Saharan Africa, followed by an international conference.

 

Might we - with attending member organizations (from India, Nigeria et al.) - meet with you between February 19th and March 8th to discuss these issues further? We hope very much that we will be able to work together with UN-Women to ensure that the widows of the world are not forgotten, but are integrated into your action programme and no longer overlooked as we strive together for gender equality.

 

Sincerely,

 

Margaret Owen, OBE, Director, Widows for Peace, Founding Member of GAPS-UK

36 Faroe Road, London W14 0EP, UK, +44 207 603-9733, director.wpd@gmail.com

 

Lauren Gibbs, Director, GLObal Action on Widowhood

3 Newport Road, Suite #1, Cambridge MA 02140, US, 617-441-8892, ladarelkg@verizon.net

 

cc: Ms. Asha-Rose Mirigo, Deputy Secretary-General; Ms. Rachel Mayanja, Secretary-General's Special Adviser on Gender Issues & Advancement of Women; Ms. Valerie Amos, Under Secretary-General for Humanitarian Affairs; Sir Mark Lyall Grant, Permanent Representative, UK Mission

 

Attached: Recommendations of WPD CSW 54 Side Event, 2010 WPD Dossier for The CEDAW on Widowhood