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VIOLENCE AGAINST GIRLS & WOMEN - SOUTH AFRICA

RAPE - DISGRACEFUL WEAPON AGAINST WOMEN

 

November 12, 2010

South Africa - The allegations of the gang rape of a 15-year-old girl on the Jules High School campus in Jeppestown rocked the nation.

It wasn't just that she was drugged; that the heinous, brutal attack was recorded on a cellphone; that the recording of the vicious act was circulated and -- if we believe some early reports -- that some educators laughed when they saw the video that was so devastating.

It wasn't the chilling comments from the school pupils, some of whom told our reporters that watching the incident was "like watching soccer" and that the victim looked like she "was enjoying herself" that makes it so shocking.

It wasn't even the reports of police not initially arresting the boys suspected of being involved because they needed to take their exams; nor was it their later release, reportedly because of a lack of evidence, that makes the incident entirely deplorable. And it wasn't the fact that the latest reports seem to be an attempt to discredit the victim by saying she was drunk, not drugged. No.

The saddest part of the entire case is the fact that our outrage probably won't last another week. We've known about this problem in our schools for years. Baby rape is rampant, "corrective rape" of lesbians is accepted practice in some areas, and gang rape all too prevalent.

There is a war against women and children in our country and the weapon is rape.

The truth is we leave it to civil society to deal with. We wait for Sonke Gender Justice to condemn leaders such as Julius Malema, who was only backing President Jacob Zuma's account of his rape accuser when he made his "she enjoyed herself" comment.

Then we shake our collective heads in disbelief when those comments come out of the mouths of babes.

We hope women like Lisa Vetten, the director of Tshwaranang Legal Advocacy Centre, will continue to shout on our behalf, that Gender Links will keep holding 16 Days of Activism each year in its too often unheard effort to tell the world about violence against women. We, the media, tell the story of the victim and unravel the horrific details.

And the next hour, day, week, we, too, move on. Until the next woman or child or baby is attacked.

We can't leave this up to civil society any longer. We need to shift our national mentality. We need awareness in every crevice of our nation. We need to have the SABC broadcast public service announcements, with leaders like Malema telling the nation that real men don't rape women -- and don't even utter comments that undermine women's rights in this way.

We need every type of media to tell the stories of our daughters, our nieces, our grandmothers, our mothers, our wives, our girlfriends, our sisters and our aunts, so that every man, woman and child clearly understands that rape affects us all.

Will this be the one case, because of the shock factor, that won't allow us to avert our eyes, that will force us to admit how bad it really is? We doubt it. And that might be the saddest part of it all.