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INDIA - CHILD MARRIAGE ISSUES

 

 

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The Times of India

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/varanasi/Now-girls-say-I-wont-do/articleshow/6181691.cms

 

INDIA - CHILD MARRIAGE STILL EXISTS BUT MORE GIRLS
RESISTING EARLY MARRIAGE & CHOOSE CONTINUED EDUCATION

 

Binay Singh


VARANASI: Teleserial 'Balika Badhu' may appear to be a replay of an era long gone by, but it is not so. There are areas and communities that still go for much earlier weddings of their children than allowed by the law. However, there is also no denying the fact that children, especially girls, have started resisting child marriage and-- what is more-- are getting support of their parents in opting for studies than matrimony.

"My parents wanted to get me married four years ago when I was just 13. But, I protested and convinced them that I wanted to pursue my studies. This is Vimla, a 17-year-old girl from a low caste Musahar community where child marriage is a normal affair, mostly due to acute poverty.

Presently, Vimla is a Class XII student and studying in a girls' inter college in Kuwar area. "I want to become a teacher so that I can help my community and dispel the darkness of ignorance," said the girl, whose siblings, including younger sister, were married off in an early age. Her parents-- Motilal Banvasi and Shanti Devi, natives of Kuwar village-- are landless labourers, and they wanted to marry off their minor daughter due to acute poverty.

Similar is the case of Jyoti (16), a native of Hukulganj, who wants to become self-reliant before her marriage. Her father left the family and settled in Mumbai. Her mother Lalmani Devi wanted to marry her daughter three years ago. Currently, Jyoti is studying in Class X. Another girl, Puja (16), a resident of Baghwanala slum, also refused her marriage proposal a year ago and continued with her studies. "My family members wanted to stop my schooling and marry me after Class IX because one the girls of the locality eloped with some boy and they were apprehensive I may do the same. It was ridiculous, and I strongly protested," she said and added finally her father Shiv Kumar Thathera was convinced and came to her aid. "Presently, Puja is studying in Class X and we would marry her according to her wish," said her father.

Two other girls, Chanda (15), a native of Baghwanala slum, and Madhuri (17), a native of Kuwar village, also opposed their early marriage and are continuing with their studies. All these girls belong to the lowest strata of society and live in penury. But, they showed courage to go against the tide and set an example for others. Seeing their determination, a human rights organisation-- Peoples Vigilance Committee on Human Rights (PVCHR)-- is going to honour them at a function on Sunday. "These girls have shown courage to denounce the practice of child marriage, which is not only a social evil but also violation of human rights," said Shruti Nagvanshi of PVCHR.

These girls have set an example as even the Law Commission of India in its report (2008) for proposal to amend the Prohibition of Child Marriage Act, 2006 and other allied laws, admits that child marriages continue to be a fairly widespread social evil in India. In a study carried out between 1998 to 1999 on girls of 15-19 years of age, it was found that 33.8 per cent were currently married or in a union. Referring to the National Family Health Survey of 2005-2006 (NFHS-3), carried out in 29 states, the report says 45 per cent of women-- currently between 20-24 years-- were married before the age of 18. The percentage was much higher in rural areas (58.5%) than in urban areas (27.9%) and exceeded 50 per cent in eight states. The percentage of women between aged 20-24, married by the time they were 18, stood at 61.2 per cent in Jharkhand followed by 60.3 per cent in Bihar, 57.1 per cent in Rajasthan, 54.7 per cent in Andhra Pradesh and 53 per cent in MP, UP and West Bengal.

The NFHS-3 findings further revealed that 16 per cent of women, aged 15-19, were already mothers or pregnant at the time of the survey. It was also found that more than half of Indian women were married before the legal minimum age of 18, compared to 16 per cent of men aged 20-49 who were married by the age of 18. Though, NFHS-3 did not compile any data on girls who were married below the age of 15, the 2001 Census had revealed that 3,00,000 girls under 15 had given birth to at least one child.

Early marriage is often linked to low levels of schooling for girls. NFHS-3 figures show that 71.6 per cent of Indian women, currently aged 20-24 years, who had been married before the age of 18 years, did not have any education at all. Furthermore, by not going to school, young brides were denied the opportunity to make friendships with peers or acquire critical life skills. Child marriage below a certain age is blatant child abuse. The Indian Penal Code considers any sexual intercourse with a minor wife below 15 years of age rape.

What keeps demon of child marriage alive

Varanasi: The phenomenon of child marriage can be attributed to a variety of reasons. The chief among them being poverty and culture, tradition and value-based on patriarchal norms.

According to the report of the Law Commission of India, the marriage of a minor girl often takes place because of poverty and indebtedness of her family. Dowry becomes an additional reason, which weighs even more heavily on poorer families. The general demand for younger brides also creates an incentive for these families to marry the girl child as early as possible to avoid high dowry payments for older girls.

The girl in patriarchal set-up is believed to be a burden. These beliefs lead parents to marry the girl child. Unfortunately, the patriarchal mindset is so strong that the girl has no say in decision making. Texts like Manu Smirti which state that the father or the brother, who has not married his daughter or the sister who has attained puberty, will go to hell, are sometimes quoted to justify child marriage. Child marriages are also an easy way out for parents who want their daughters to obey and accept their choice of a husband for them. There is also a belief that child marriage is a protection for the girls against unwanted masculine attention or promiscuity. In a society, which puts a high premium on the patriarchal values of virginity and chastity of girls, girls are married off as soon as possible.

The report says the child marriage is a grave violation of the rights of the child, depriving her of opportunities and facilities to develop in a healthy manner to obtain education and to lead a life of freedom and dignity. It deprives the young girl of capabilities, opportunities and decision-making powers and stands in the way of her social and personal development. Young brides face the risk of sexual and reproductive ill health because of their exposure to early sexual activity and pregnancy. Complications and mortality are common during childbirth for young pregnant girls. Girls who come from poor backgrounds, and who are often married at an early age, have little or no access to health care services. Risks associated with young pregnancy and childbearing include an increased risk of premature labour, complications during delivery, low birth-weight and a higher chance that the newborn will not survive.

The report further says young mothers, under age 15, are five times more likely to die than women in their 20s due to complications. Maternal mortality among adolescent girls is estimated to be two to five times higher than adult women. Maternal mortality among girls aged 15-19 years is about three times higher. Young women also suffer from a high risk of maternal morbidity. Research indicates that the babies of mothers below the age of 18 tend to have higher rates of child morbidity and mortality. Infants of mothers younger than 18 years have a 60 per cent greater chance of dying in the first year of life than those of mothers aged 19 years or older.

According to the report, young brides also run the risk of catching diseases from their respective spouses, as older husbands often engage in sexual relations with other women outside the marriage. Young married girls do not have bargaining power in the marriage and therefore cannot negotiate safe sex and are deemed vulnerable. It has also been found that young girls are physiologically more prone to contracting HIV/AIDS, as their vagina is not well lined with protective cells and the cervix may be more easily eroded. An analysis of the HIV epidemic shows that the prevalence of HIV infection is highest in girls between 15-24 and peaks in men between five to ten years later.





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