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YEMEN: Child bride gets  divorce


Photo: Annasofie Flamand/IRIN

Twelve-year-old Sally al-Sabahi is Yemen’s fourth child bride divorcee

SANAA, 28 March 2010 (IRIN) - Throngs of journalists pushed forward to get a picture of 12-year-old Sally al-Sabahi as she signed her divorce papers in the Yemeni capital on 27 March. As she dipped her thumb in dark ink and pressed it next to her name on an official document, she became Yemen’s fourth child bride divorcee.

IRIN reported on Sally’s story in February, when she was referred to as Aisha to protect her identity. She was 10 years old when her family married her off to an older man in exchange for a US$1,000 dowry. Within her first week of marriage, Sally began trying to escape the terrible treatment she said she received from her husband.

A few months later she succeeded in escaping but could not get a divorce, largely because her father did not have the money to pay back the dowry. On reading IRIN's article about Sally, several people came forward offering to contribute. One of them was Nalan Gungor Ozisik, who works as a lecturer at
Stanford University in the US.

“I refuse to watch ignorance misrepresent Islam,” she said. “I hope that Sally can now get on with her childhood; since a happy childhood is the birthright of all children in the world.”


Photo: Annasofie Flamand/IRIN

The moment 12-year-old Sally al-Sabahi signed her divorce papers in Sanaa, the Yemeni capital. After the divorce she thanked all the people that made it possible

Several women’s rights campaigners were present at the courthouse in Sanaa. “This is a step in the right direction,” said Belqes Ali al-Lahabi, a woman’s rights activist. “Sally’s divorce will help apply pressure on the government to pass the law of a minimum age for marriages in Yemen.”

Minimum age debated

Sally’s divorce comes after weeks of heated debates about a new law setting a minimum age for marriages at 17, which has polarised
Yemen. (Read: Deep divisions over child brides). It was first accepted by a majority in parliament in February 2009, but was rejected by the Sharia Committee. Parliament is set to vote once again on the law in the near future.

According to the Washington DC-based International Centre for Research on Women (ICRW), just under half all girls in
Yemen marry under the age of 18, which the UN Convention on the Rights of a Child says is under age.

“I support the idea of setting a minimum age for marriage that is not less than 18 years old,” said Judge Mansour Ali Mohammed, who presided over Sally’s divorce. “When a man marries a child and they have children, then you end up with a child raising a child.”

During the divorce proceedings Sally sat quietly, only speaking to confirm her name and to accept the divorce. Afterwards she thanked all those who had made it possible “I have felt this dark cloud over my head for so long – now it’s gone. Thank you,” she said.

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Yemen - Islamic Clerics Oppose Child Bride Ban - Government to Decide

 

 

March 22, 2010

Ahmed Al-Haj,Hadeel Al-Shalchi

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Yemeni women hold up the Quran and Arabic placard reading "yes to the legal rights of the Muslim woman" as they take part in a protest outside the parliament in San'a, Sunday, March 21, 2010. AP PHOTO

SAN’A, YEMEN—Some of Yemen's most influential Islamic leaders, including one the U.S. says mentored Osama bin Laden, have declared supporters of a ban on child brides to be apostates.

The religious decree, issued Sunday, deeply imperils efforts to salvage legislation that would make it illegal for those under the age of 17 to marry.

The practice is widespread in Yemen and has been particularly hard to discourage in part because of the country's gripping poverty — bride-prices in the hundreds of dollars are especially difficult for poor families to pass up.

More than a quarter of Yemen's females marry before age 15, according to a report last year by the Social Affairs Ministry. Tribal custom also plays a role, including the belief that a young bride can be shaped into an obedient wife, bear more children and be kept away from temptation.

A February 2009 law set the minimum age for marriage at 17, but it was repealed and sent back to parliament's constitutional committee for review after some lawmakers called it un-Islamic. The committee is expected to make a final decision on the legislation next month.

Some of the clerics who signed Sunday's decree sit on the committee.

The group behind the declaration also includes Yemen's most influential cleric, Sheik Abdul-Majid al-Zindani, whom the United States has branded a spiritual mentor of bin Laden. Al-Zindani denies being a member of al-Qaida.

In a further challenge to the rights groups pushing for a ban, government officials are reluctant to challenge al-Zindani and other conservative tribal and religious figures whose support they need to hold onto power in the fragile nation.

The religious leaders organized a protest against the legislation on Sunday by a group of women. Hidden behind black face veils and robes, the women carried signs that read "Yes to the Islamic rights of women."

"I was married at 15 and have many children now," said one of the women, Umm Abdul-Rahman. "And I will marry my daughter at the same age if I decide she is ready for it."

The issue of Yemen's child brides vaulted into the headlines three years ago when an 8-year-old girl boldly went by herself to a courtroom and demanded a judge dissolve her marriage to a man in his 30s. She eventually won a divorce, and legislators began looking at ways to curb the practice.

In September, a 12-year-old Yemeni child-bride died after struggling for three days in labour to give birth, a local human rights organization said.

A rights group pushing for a ban planned a protest for Tuesday.

"The government has two options: to give girls in Yemen a chance at life or to condemn them to a death sentence," said Amal Basha, chairwoman of the group, Sisters Arab Forum in Yemen.

Yemen once set 15 as the minimum age for marriage, but parliament annulled that law in the 1990s, saying parents should decide when a daughter marries.





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