IRAQ: Continued Violence Causing Gender
Role Swap
Photo:
Afif Sarhan/IRIN |
Because men are under
increased risk of being killed when outside their homes, women have begun
taking on many traditionally male
responsibilities |
BAGHDAD, 18 July 2007 (IRIN) - Until
2003, Salwa Khatab Omar, had been driven around by two drivers and accompanied
by at least three guards who lived in a caravan next to her house in Baghdad.
She lived in some style and without many responsibilities.
Since the
2003 US-led invasion, however, Salwa, the wife of a former senior army officer,
has found herself responsible for virtually everything.
"My husband
can't leave the house at all for fear of being targeted like other former regime
officials," said Khatab, a 51-year-old mother of four.
"Unlike before, I
have to accompany my sons and daughters to their schools and colleges in
addition to dealing with other household stuff," said Khatab. She said they had
to leave their home and rent a house where nobody knows her husband and his
background.
Iraqi men are traditionally the breadwinners, while most
women take care of other duties inside the house.
Iraq's continuing
violence, however, especially with threats against men, has forced some women to
take on more family responsibilities - a phenomenon called "gender role swap" by
some specialists.
"Our society does not respect a man who sits at home
while his wife works and feeds the family," said Kholoud Nasser Muhssin, a
researcher on family and children's affairs at the University of Baghdad.
"This phenomenon will definitely weaken the role of the father and
reduce respect among children for their fathers in some families. It will
adversely affect an already devastated society," Muhssin added.
Mainly men killed in violence
Since February
2006, when the golden dome of a revered Shia shrine north of Baghdad was blown
up, Iraq's two major Muslim sects have been plunged into spiralling sectarian
killings.
A study published last year by the respected UK medical
journal, The Lancet, found that men accounted for 91 percent of the
violence-related deaths in Iraq.
The controversial study, which was
based on a survey of households in Iraq, but not on an actual body count,
contended that nearly 655,000 Iraqis had died in three years of conflict in Iraq
- over 10 times more than other independent estimates of the toll.
Women collect bodies of dead relatives
Two
weeks ago, Fawziya Ibrahim Mohammed, a 36-year old housewife and mother of four,
went through a grim experience when she had to go to downtown Baghdad to claim
the bodies of her brother and two cousins from the main morgue: “Men would
definitely be kidnapped and killed by Shia militia," she said.
The three
were allegedly kidnapped at a checkpoint manned by Shia-dominated police
commandos south of Baghdad and handed over to the al-Mahdi army, a Shia militia
loyal to radical religious leader Muqtada al-Sadr who is blamed for many
killings.
Their bullet-riddled bodies were found next day dumped in the
street with their legs and hands tied. There were signs they had been
tortured.
If the security situation continues to
deteriorate we will see women working as taxi or truck drivers; more of
them will work in shops or as technicians or
mechanics. |
"They [Shia militiamen] are always near the
morgue to snatch Sunni men when they retrieve the bodies. We don’t want to lose
any more men and that’s why I took the risk, although it was my first time to
travel alone," Fawziya added.
Conversely, Shia men have stopped
travelling through Sunni-dominated areas, where Sunni militants are active, in
order not to be kidnapped and killed.
Last month, Abdul-Zahra Nassir
Jumaa could not accompany his son's funeral procession to the southern city of
Najaf, about 200km south of Baghdad, where Shias usually bury their dead.
"We sent only the women, with a Sunni driver, as they had to get through
Sunni-dominated areas in southern Baghdad where Sunni militants snatch Shia men
and behead them immediately," Jumaa, a 55-year old Shia father, said.
Muhssin said that - with many men fleeing the country, keeping a low
profile at home, or in prison - more responsibilities would be transferred to
women in the future.
"If the security situation continues to deteriorate
we will see women working as taxi or truck drivers; more of them will work in
shops or as technicians or mechanics."