SOUTH ASIA WIDOWS
NETWORK FOR EMPOWERMENT AND DEVELOPMENT
Invitation to the Inauguration of the
Widows Conference at Cok’s Guest
House, No. 1466, Garden Avenue, Anna Nagar, Chennai 600 050 (Mogappair) on
December 19, 2005.
Warm greetings from the Association for the Rural Poor, Chennai.
The Widows Network is a new initiative, which is being headed by a
veteron lady Ms. Margaret Owen from the United Kingdom and a group of five young
widows from Nepal, Bangladesh, Pakistan, Afganistan , Sri Lanka and India.
Widows in South Asia have been always looked down upon in any community in South
Asia and it is difficult for a patriochal society such as ours to enable them to
live with dignity and respect and play a responsible role in shaping women,
children and men in our countries.
With this in mind, the Widows Conference is organized in Cok’s Guest
House, Magappair, Chennai from December 19 morning to December 21, evening. After inauguration and keynote address
on December 19, 2005 in the forenoon, a wide range of discussion and concrete
planning will take place to initiate, strengthen and sustain the Network for
empowering marginalized widows who are the most dehumanized in our
neighbourhoods.
Therefore the programmes on December 20 and December 21 will be visit
Pulicat Lake Widows in Arambakkam (55kilo meters from Chennai on Calcutta High
way and a Widows meeting in Marakanam (100 kilometer from Chennai near
Pondicherry on December 21, 2005. We expect altogether eight hundred widows to
attend these two meetings to be empowered socially mentally and
psychologically. The widow leaders
form South Asia will address these meetings, share their experiences and greet
the widows for solidarity and support.
The meetings in Chennai as well as the two Widows Conference are being
hosted by the Association for the Rural Poor, Chennai and the Small Fishers
Federation, Chilaw, Sri Lanka.
Though Mr. Anuradha Wicramasinghe the Director of the Small Fisheres
Federation and myself will be
hosts, we wish to assure you that we will not in anyway dominate and thrust our
ideas in the meetings. We will both
take the back seat and enable to break through difficult situation and come up
with productive proposal for the future.
Though you may be new to these meetings, we request you to attend the
inauguration and participate in the deliberation on December 19, 2005 from 10.00
am to 4.00 pm and join the fellowship lunch and tea
also.
We are sorry for the late invitation and yet we request you to
participate and offer your valuable suggestions for the future development of
SANWED
Look forward to meeting you,
Yours
sincerely,
Felix N.
Sugirtharaj
Hony.
Secretary
CC: Mr. Anuradha Wicramasinghe,
Ms. Lily, Sadhana and
Ms. Margaret Owen.
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SOUTH ASIAN NETWORK FOR
WIDOWS EMPOWERMENT IN DEVELOPMENT
(SANWED)
MISSION
STATEMENT
Widows hold up “more than half the sky”. They are sole supporters of families as well as vital contributors to the economy.
SANWED is a new initiative in the South Asian
region to fight for widows’ human rights in all aspects of their lives; an end
to their poverty and marginalisation; and the elimination of all forms of
discrimination against them – legal, social, cultural, religious and
economic.
VISION
SANWED HAS BEEN FORMED
TO:
·
Bring together under one consortium, as a means of strengthening their
effectiveness, all widows’
associations and groups in the seven countries of South Asia: Afghanistan,
Bangladesh, Bhutan, India, Nepal, Pakistan and Sri
Lanka
·
Identify activists for widows and encourage the establishment of widows’
grass-roots empowerment organisations in countries where there are none
·
Focus on widows’ key roles as contributors to the economy and society, as
custodians of the environment, as peace and democracy builders and as valuable
“social capital” in development, rather than as exclusively “vulnerable and
needy” victims of circumstances.
·
Gather vital statistics and data on this hitherto neglected area of
women’s human rights
·
Share experiences and “best practice” for the promotion and improvement
of the legal, social, cultural, religious and economic status of widows through
action at local, national, regional and international
levels.
·
Ensure that the needs and roles of South Asian widows are addressed and
acknowledged by their governments, UN agencies, donors, and INGOS and the
international community generally
·
Build up the capacity of South Asian widows’ organisations for effective
advocacy, awareness raising, and monitoring of widows’ human rights in the
framework of international conventions and agreements (e.g. CEDAW, BPFA, SCR
1352, and the MDGs[1]).
·
Network with widows’ empowerment groups in other regions of the world to
prioritize the issues of widowhood, in the context of the reduction of poverty
and the promotion of human rights and justice, on international, regional and
national agendas
·
Strengthen the effectiveness of the International WIDOWS FOR PEACE AND
SECURITY[2] network through a strong
regional membership.
Background
Never before in human
history has there been such a dramatic escalation in the numbers of widows,
particularly in developing countries, in South Asia, Africa and parts of the
Middle East. This unprecedented rise in numbers has been caused by the
proliferation of armed conflict, ethnic cleansing, the scourge of AIDS and the
persistence in some regions of harmful traditional
practices.
Statistics barely exist
(with the exception of India) on widowhood. But in conflict afflicted countries
it is estimated that nearly half of all adult women may be widows or wives of
the “disappeared”, many of them very young mothers of dependent children. Many
women are still in their teens and early twenties when they become widows,
destined to spend the rest of their lives in poverty and vulnerable to abuse,
unless governments demonstrate a commitment to right the wrongs inflicted on
them.
These women, of all ages,
are to be found among the poorest of the poor, often invisible, their voices
unheard and their needs, both immediate and long-term unmet. In spite of the
panoply of international human rights conventions and agreements that their
governments have ratified or signed up to the status, situation of widows
continue to be ignored. Legal reforms, for example, on inheritance, land rights,
violence to women, have failed to redress injustices since widows’ lives are
often determined by arbitrary interpretations of religious and customary laws.
Many obstacles exist to their accessing the justice system. Widows have a
desperate need for education, training and employment to adequate housing,
health-care, nutrition and education for their children. Also to personal
security and protection from abuse. The exclusion of widows from full
participation in society has grave and irrevocable implications for their
children, for society as a whole and development in
general.
While governments have done
little to address the needs and roles of widows, in some countries of South Asia
widows have been able to look to NGOs to alleviate their suffering. But the
pattern is uneven. Some of the South Asian countries have literally hundreds of
NGOs working with poor widows but many are “top-down” welfare-based charities
rather than active political activists, while few can be called real grass-roots
organisations for the real empowerment of widows. It is vital that widows form
their own associations.
The goal of SANWED is that in each country, a national association of widows’ groups
should be established, with
branches or member associations in every city, town, village, refugee or IDP
camp so that widows’ know and can obtain their rights, can access training and
employment, and participate in decision-making at every level. There can be no
real change in the situation of widows until they themselves are AGENTS OF CHANGE.[3]
International Action and
Framework
June 23rd was proclaimed INTERNATIONAL WIDOWS’ DAY by Cherie
Blair (the wife of the UK Prime Minister, Tony Blair) earlier this year. This
annual date provides a challenge for all of us to celebrate the lives of widows and to
work towards their full emancipation from poverty, fear, isolation and
violence. We can do this if we work
together. Hopefully, the establishment of SANWED in South Asia will encourage
consortiums of widows’ groups to be set up in the other regions of the world
where widows face similar problems.
We will also be supporting
the proposal that the UN Secretary-General appoints a Special Rapporteur to
investigate the treatment of widows by State Partners.
SANWED will hold its first inaugural meeting in
Chennai, Southern India, from December 17-21st hosted by Dr Felix Sugirtharaj of
the Coastal Poor Development Action Network.
We look forward to your
support and contributions to this initiative.
Dr Felix Sugirtharaj.
Coastal Poor Development Action Network, India
Mr. Anuradha
Wickramasinghe Small Fishers
Federation, Sri
Lanka
Ms. Lily Thapa. Women for
Human Rights, Single Women’s Group,
Ms. Sadhana Shrestha,
Country Representative,Ashoka Nepal
Mrs. Margaret Owen WIDOWS FOR PEACE THROUGH DEMOCRACY.
UK.
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First SANWED Regional Meeting
Background
The First International
Conference on Capacity Building of Single Women (Widows) organized by Women For
Human Rights (WHR) of Nepal in May
2005 was the initial step towards setting up the platform for the voice of
widows to be heard in the international level.
A positive outcome of the
International Conference was the initiation of a Global Networking for the
widows, which was spear headed by the team of Ms. Margaret Owen from Widows for
Peace through Democracy UK , Mr. Anuradha Wickramasinghe from Small Fishers
Federation and Lily Thapa of Women for Human Rights, respectively.
As a followup Mr. Anuradha
Wickramasinghe from Small Fishers Federation hosted an exposure visit to Sri
Lanka widow's group with representatives from UK, Nepal, India and Thailand. Thus the
concrete concept of South Asian Networking for Widows in Development (SANWED)
came into existence.
There is a wealth of rich
experience to share in the region. For example, in India, the work of the Guild
of Service, the Single Women’s Association of Rajasthan, and the Coastal Poor
Development Action Network; in Nepal the unique achievements of the Women for
Human rights Single Women’s Group; in Sri Lanka the extraordinary examples of
economic empowerment sustained by the Small Fishers’ Federation of grass-roots
widows’ groups. All these experiences need to be shared and the voice of widows
will be stronger when it comes from the region as a whole, rather than from one
country or one association.
Agenda of FIRST SANWED REGIONAL
MEETING:
Observing the abrupt need to
work on widows issues and to enlighten the lives of widows SANWED has
been established and the First Regional Meeting is going to be held in Chennai,
South India form December 17-21st hosted by Dr Felix Sugirtharaj of the
Coastal Poor Development Action Network along with the coordination of the other
SANWED regional members, in which each country will have three to four
participants of which one must be a widow to represent the respective country.
Objectives/ Agendas of the
Meeting:
·
Finalize the SANWED Vision/ Mission and
Objectives.
·
Based on the above , identify activities –short term and long
term.
·
Action Plan- how, what, who, when and where -for implementation of
activities.
·
Finalizing the roles and responsibilities of SANWED Member
organizations.
·
Set up Widows Resource
Fund.
·
Secretariat.
Program
Schedule
December 18th- 20th,
2005
First Day: December 18th,
2005: 9:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m.
·
Opening Ceremony/ Formal
·
Welcome with Objectives of the Meeting
·
Key Note Speakers
·
Vote of Thanks
Tea
Break
·
Introduction of country representatives
·
Country Presentations on the Status of
widows
·
Open Discussion
Lunch and Field
Visit
Second Day: December 19th,
2005: 9:00 a.m. to 2:00 p.m.
·
Discussion & Finalise the Vision and Mission of
SANWED
·
Group Work on SANWED activities to achieve vision: Short and Long term
(National & Regional)
Tea
Break
·
Presentation of the group work
·
Compile and prepare the final activities of
SANWED.
Lunch Break and Field
Visit
Third Day: December 20th,
2005: 9:00a.m. To 2:00 p.m.
·
Discuss and finalize the roles and responsibilities of seven SANWED
member countries.
·
Identify key activities to implement the activities of SANWED
Tea
Break
·
Discuss on creating Widows
Resource Fund.
·
Discuss & Finalise the administrative responsibilities for SANWED
Lunch
Primary activities of SANWED
to be discussed
Strong advocacy from the
grassroots level to the governmental agencies, and International
Level
Implementing First Widows
Charter- Kathmandu.
Yearly publications of the
activities of seven SANWED member countries.
Documentation of best practices and activities of seven
SANWED member countries of each year.
E-Network of SANWED member
countries.
Database of
members.
Website of
SANWED.
Flier
Membership Fee
Constitution of SANWED.
Proposal Writing and
identifying donors.
[1] Convention on the Elimination of all Forms of Discrimination against Women (CEDAW). Beijing Platform for Action (BPFA). Security Council Resolution of October, 2000 1352 (SCR 1352). Millennium Development Goals (MDGs)
[2] WIDOWS FOR PEACE THROUGH SECURITY. Margieowen@aol.com 36 Faroe Road London W14 OEP Fax and telephone: 44 (0) 207 603 9733
[3] Jean Dreze, the distinguished sociologist, has stressed this principle, in his writings on widowhood issues in North India.