My
name is Daliya; I was born in Baghdad in 1982 during the Iranian
Iraqi War.
I completed my
primary and secondary school in Al-Diwaniya (a city south of
Baghdad). Then I went to Al -Mousil (north of Baghdad) to study
pharmacology in the University of Al Mousil. I completed the first
year in Al Mousil then I transferred to Baghdad College of pharmacy
- University of Baghdad.
Both of my parents were doctors and
when I was young they frequently left me and my brothers and sisters
alone in the house because they had to work. During the Gulf war my
mom was a manager in a children and women's hospital in Al-Diwaniya.
In 1991, when I was in third grade, I remember that one
morning around 4:00 am I woke up to the sound of the phone. I
answered the phone; it was a man asking for my mom so I went to my
parent’s bedroom. I woke my mom telling her: "Mom, mom, there is
someone who wants you on the phone, wake up mom." She thought that
the hospital wanted her for emergency case, so she picked up the
phone and said, "Hello?” Then there was a silent moment; then she
said "Ok, I’m coming now." I asked her, "What happened mom?” She
said "Baghdad is burning.” I did not believe her at first because
Al-Diwaniya was so calm. She asked my father to change his clothes
and they went to the hospital. When they drove the car at that
moment I heard an explosion, it was such a scary sound; the
explosion had come from a gas station that had just been destroyed.
Then my brothers and sisters and I stayed at home alone without
electricity and without water. This situation continued and for
forty days we did not go to our schools; my parents were in the
hospital all the time. There was no gas in the car, to get to the
hospital my parents had to walk.
At that time the city of
Al-Diwaniya was out of government control. So, after forty days the
American bombing was finished and there were no policemen in the
city, poor people began loot the governmental institutions and the
Iranian army sent soldiers to capture the city. They did not allow
women to go to the street without a head kerchief. That situation
continued for about ten days. After that the republican army came to
the city and began to shoot everybody and destroy the civilian
houses with rockets and bombs and they began to take young people
away to kill them. Then the city returned to government control. The
government decided to punish us by cutting both the electricity and
water. There was not any food in the city and the salary was one
dollar per month!
The situation persisted for about twelve
years. We were able to survive because of my parent’s private
clinic. But most of people lived from either loot or corruption.
Decay was dominant in all the country. We prayed for a miracle to
save us. In 2003 we heard on the radio that American forces were
coming to Iraq to liberate us. We were so happy when the miracle
happened and Baghdad fell. We saw American soldiers on their tanks
in the street, we showered them with flowers and we were so grateful
to be liberated. We saw the light of hope come from America.
But, the happiness did not last. Some parties came to Iraq
and they did not care about anything, they only cared about their
own benefits. The terrorists came to Iraq so easily because the
borders were opened. The situation became worse day by day. When I
went to my college I did not know if I would be able to make it back
to my home alive. In 2003 when my family and I were living in the
city of Al-Diwaniya, the phone rang and my oldest brother answered,
he spoke in English for a while and then he call my mom to come to
speak on the phone. When my mom finished her telephone call, she
told us that the American ambassador wanted to see her in Baghdad.
She went there and met him in the republican palace. He asked her
one question "What is your opinion about democracy?"
Then
after about thirty days the phone rang again, my mom answered and
when she finished her telephone call she told us "I’m now a member
in Iraqi government council." My mom was one of the three women in
that council. You might think from this that we are a lucky family,
but we were not. Other students began avoiding me in my college. I
was alone all the time. I was so sad.
In 2005 it was my
graduation year, when some other students and I in my college threw
a party for our graduation, we were both happy and at the same time
afraid about what the future could bring. For the party there was a
music DJ and the students all wore clothes that were not permitted.
During the party armed people suddenly arrived, wearing black
clothes and carrying guns. They began shooting everywhere and they
destroyed everything. It was my graduation day. |
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