Albania:
Violence against
Women in the Family: "It's not her shame"
1.
IntroductionOne night from 7pm to 4am he was drinking and
torturing me in various ways. He took the meat cleaver when I was lying on the
settee, and held it against the front of my neck, just because I called my
sister, and he said, "Why did you call your sister, you wanted to ask about your
brother-in-law and not your sister". So he beat me very badly. I was horrified.
I was pregnant just in my first months. He then took a shot of raki and sat in
silence for five minutes. Then he took the cleaver, and with all the force of
his upper hand pushed my head to one side and put the cleaver to my neck. I
don’t know how I didn’t die from the shock. He was interrogating me trying to
find out who I liked or if I had someone else. I didn’t answer his questions as
I was very afraid and didn’t want to make any mistake as I knew it could end
very badly. Then he took another shot and sat for another five minutes. Then he
took the electrician’s pincers and pulled at my new blouse trying to get at my
breast and destroyed the blouse with the pincers; then he took my hair and cut
it with a bread knife; then he tried to gouge my eyes out with his finger; then
he put his fist in my mouth with as much pressure as he could. All the time
while he tortured me, he would stop, take a shot of raki, and then start
torturing me again. I passed out at about 4.30 am. (N).
I am
carrying the past around inside me. No one can see my heart, how it is inside.
(P).
As in other countries throughout the world, the human rights of
thousands of Albanian women are violated on a daily basis. At least a third of
all women in Albania are estimated to have experienced physical violence within
their families. They are hit, beaten, raped, and in some cases even killed. Many
more endure psychological violence, physical and economic control.
On 23
January 2006, a coalition of non-governmental organizations (NGOs), led by the
Citizen’s Advocacy Office and including the major women and children’s NGOs,
presented a draft law "On Measures against Violence in Family Relations" to the
Albanian parliament by citizen’s petition.
Twenty thousand Albanians had
signed this petition presenting the draft law, indicating the concern of a
significant sector of Albanian society about this continuing and widespread
abuse of human rights, and their determination to call on the government to take
action to prevent violence in the family and protect its victims. (1)
While acknowledging that the Albanian government should take action to
address all forms of violence within the family, this report focuses on one
aspect of family violence, the violence against women perpetrated by their
husbands or other intimate partners, more commonly known as domestic violence.
In their 1996 report,
Domestic Violence in Albania, Minnesota
Advocates for Human Rights recommended that "the Albanian government should
afford victims of domestic violence meaningful access to the criminal justice
system".(2) Ten years later, despite an apparent increase in reports of domestic
violence in the press and in the number and capacity of women’s NGOs providing
women with assistance and support, the increased documentation of domestic
violence by Albanian and international NGOs and recommendations by UN treaty
bodies, it appears that successive Albanian governments have continued to fail
to provide women with any effective access to justice, or the right to
protection from such violence.
Violence against women is an abuse of the
human rights of women and girls including their rights to mental and physical
integrity, to liberty and security of the person, to freedom of expression, the
right to choice in marriage and the basic requirement of non-discrimination.
Violence may lead to treatment amounting to torture or cruel, inhuman and
degrading treatment and in extreme cases, may violate the right to life.
Violence against women prevents the full enjoyment of rights and fundamental
freedoms such as the rights to health and employment.
Husbands, former
husbands and partners are responsible for most of these abuses, but other family
members may take part in or support acts of violence, which may often be
condoned by the wider community in which the woman lives. In Albania, as
elsewhere, notions of tradition may all too often serve as a pretext for acts of
violence against women deemed to have infringed traditional codes of behaviour,
and even those who conform to their allotted role of wife and mother. Such
violence against women is widely tolerated, justified and excused by reference
to tradition, or a specific Albanian "mentality", even at the highest levels of
the government, police and judiciary.
Individual women and women’s NGOs
in Albania (3) have, over the past decade, worked to expose the culture of
violence in which many women live and which is often invisible to the outside
world. They have established organizations, including help-lines and shelters,
to counsel women suffering domestic violence and have helped women to escape
violent men. They received little or no assistance from the national
authorities.